Sensual massages: our tips for enjoying all their benefits

Sensual massage is a type of massage that you do as a couple or with romantic partners. It consists of massaging the body of the person you love using pleasant, relaxing movements. For more sensation, we recommend you do it naked.

You can try this under many different pretexts. It may simply be a question of getting together and sharing a pleasant moment of intimacy. A sensual massage with essential oils (*) can also be used as a prelude to lovemaking.

What is the difference between an erotic and a sensual massage? A ‘sensual’ massage focuses on the intimate connection between two people. However, it can become erotic when it focuses on erogenous zones. It's up to you to decide how far you want to go...

Of all the sensual massage techniques, Californian massage is undoubtedly the best known. It is also known as the "touch of the heart". Enveloping the body, it provides a pleasant sensation of relaxation. When massaging this way, remember that your hand must never lose contact with the recipient's skin. Start with effleurage strokes, then increase the intensity in a crescendo with kneading and sliding presses. It's all about the connection.

Sensual tantric massage belongs to the family of erotic massages. Inspired by Eastern spiritual practices, it is supposed to lead the recipient to a form of ecstasy. It is often likened to orgasmic meditation for two. Contrary to popular belief, it is not limited to touching the erogenous zones. With tantrism, your whole body becomes a receptacle for pleasure. The idea is to play, discover, experiment and, of course, relax.

Thai massage is a long way from the deeply erotic usual clichés. More than anything it's a little-known technique that combines yoga and meditation. The principle is to apply localised pressure to the body and stretching. Although it can be performed sensually, it can be a little technical for beginners. We therefore advise you to try it under the supervision of a professional masseur.

A massage will be all the more sensual if the oil used is soft and pleasant to the touch. Your aim is to ensure that your movements flow naturally, avoiding any sensation of friction. You'll find ready-to-use massage oils specifically formulated to create a warm, soothing atmosphere. However, an organic carrier oil can enhance the experience, as long as it is nourishing and not dry. It also offers valuable cosmetic benefits, while remaining affordable.

Here are our essentials for a harmonious, enveloping massage.

Essential oils can be a great addition to an erotic massage. But they have much more to offer! Some of them have been known for centuries for their aphrodisiac properties. In other words, they can have an effect on sexual desire and libido. To take advantage of this, add a few drops of the essential oil of your choice to a neutral medium. You can also create your own combination. To do this, always follow the recommended doses and precautions for use for each essential oil you choose.

(*) Essential oils are subject to precautions and restrictions on use. They should always be used diluted in a carrier oil or an oily mixture. We recommend that you respect the concentrations indicated on our technical fact sheets. Not for use by pregnant or breast-feeding women, or if you are taking medication. If in doubt, ask your doctor for advice before giving a sensual massage with essential oils.

Sensual massages often pave the way for foreplay. Here, too, you'll find plenty to help you along in our nature booklet. For example, did you know that certain carrier oils make excellent natural lubricants?

And if you're on your own, treat yourself to our facial self-massage routine. You'll discover all the advice of a professional facialist on how to get a radiant complexion again.